Extractions: By Elvia C. In light of the shootings in Granada Hills, now is the time to reflect and take a hard look at what is happening in our society. How can we make a change to assure a safe and better future for our children? We as adults can take action by, first examining ourselves. How do we deal with daily aggravations? Do we yell and make hand gestures on the freeway? Do we roll our eyes and sigh impatiently at check out lines? The way we handle ourselves during a crisis or an argument with another person teaches our children that conflict and disagreement is part of our daily life. We as adults can take a moment or two to think which is the best way to react to conflict and disagreement handling these constructively models appropriate behavior. For instance take a walk if possible. Wait a moment alone and count to ten (time out.) Take deep breaths. Be respectful. Respect your child. Value him or her and their opinions. No name-calling, no put downs or hostile arguments with the child or your mate.
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Extractions: Positive Parenting Tips There is no doubt about it-being a good parent is hard work, but it can be tremendously rewarding and fun as well. And, like any job, you can also learn to do it better. In conjunction with April being Child Abuse Prevention Month and as part of its ongoing effort to improve the lives of children and families in Wisconsin, Children's Service Society of Wisconsin (CSSW) has compiled a brochure with tips on how to be a more positive parent. The following are some positive parenting tips CSSW offers: Learn about normal child development - Learning more about your kids will help you have realistic expectations. Kids are able to do different things at different ages, and sometimes parents expect too much or too little. Knowing the different developmental stages can help you know that what you are asking kids to do is realistic. Positive Reinforcement - Give praise for the little things as well as the big things kids do. Make it genuine-that's the best kind! Kids of all ages feel better about themselves when they know they have done the right thing. "Try this," sounds a lot better than "Don't do that." Consistency - In the long run, everyone in a family is happier with some basic rules. When kids know what you expect, they don't have to guess what the rules are. Make the rules simple, few, reasonable and consistent. Be sure to follow through, even when they fuss.
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Extractions: Parenting Tips for Fathers A New Baby Will Change Your Family Brothers and Sisters Need Attention Too Talk about your feelings. Dont expect to be "natural" at parenting most people arent. Even in parenting, practice makes perfect. PARENTING TIPS FOR FATHERS SHOW THAT YOU CARE Give your children hugs and kisses often; children need physical comfort and contact from their fathers. Tell them how much they mean to you, "Youre really important to me." GIVE GUIDELINES FOR CONDUCT Give your children rules and make sure your rules are clear to them; dont say "maybe" when you mean "no." Be consistent with your rules; children get confused when you seem to change your mind without any reason. Use effective discipline to help children develop self-control; set limits and encourage children to feel good about themselves. COMMUNICATE WITH CARE Look directly at your children when they talk to you. Be honest with your children; admit your mistakes and teach your children the importance of taking responsibility and making amends. Tell your children that they can come to you with any questions, otherwise they may receive inappropriate answers from other people.
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Extractions: Children need to be taught that ALL actions have consequences. Some consequences may be good, while others are bad. They need to be able to figure out in which direction their actions will take them, and if they are willing and able to deal with the consequences of their actions. A mistake that I made continually over the years was making it okay for my daughter to forget or lose things. Only after writing this article did I realize the error of my ways. Thinking back, I see the pattern and bad habits I helped my daughter develop.
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Extractions: Take an honest look in the mirror and ask yourself: Are you in constant battle with your kids? Do you find yourself wanting to hit your children? Do you think your children are "winding you up" to spite you? If so, talk with someone before these feelings get the better of you. Call a friend or relative and/or seek professional help from Social Services, the NSPCC or your GP. Help is available so use it! Positively you are showing that you care about the relationship with your child. 6 Ways To Improve Behaviour And Give Your Child Self-Confidence 1. Show That You Care
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Extractions: Advanced Search familydoctor.org Home For Parents Parenting Tips I love my children, but being a parent can be so hard! I get so frustrated sometimes. Is this normal? What can I do when I feel frustrated? I sometimes lose my temper. Does that mean I'm a bad parent? ... Who can I ask when I need help raising my child? Printer-friendly version Email this article Being a parent can be a joy, but it's also a tough job. No parent is perfect. We all make mistakes. Even loving parents sometimes do things they don't mean to do, like slap a child or call a child a bad name. But if you think you're having trouble controlling yourself, get help so a pattern of abuse doesn't start. Return to top Yes. All parents get frustrated. Children take a lot of time and energy. Parenting is even harder when you have problems in your life, such as worries about your job, your bills or your relationships, or problems with alcohol or drugs. To be a good parent, you have to take care of yourself. That means getting help for your problems. Return to top What can I do when I feel frustrated?
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Extractions: One of the strongest predictors of the choices your teenâs makes for future relationships is the person they first date for an extended time. Choosing a healthy relationship from the start begins with your teenâs positive view of themselves. Help your teen get to know themselves inside and out. Summer is coming and your teen is applying for jobs. Teach your teen how to approach an establishment, ask for the manager, and shake hands. Focus on what is appropriate to wear to an interview and what an employer expects. These are teaching moments that will help develop skills that will last a lifetime. Keep tabs on the influences in your teenâs life. Learn their favorite music, bands
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Extractions: There are two matters you may want to consider in your decision. What lessons do you want to teach your child about spending money? For example, if it is important for you to teach your child that they have to work for things that are considered luxuries (such as expensive clothing) then you may want them to pay part or all of the clothing cost. If they have to spend their allowance money or do extra chores for the clothing, they may learn to appreciate the clothes more. This issue really provides you with an ideal teaching opportunity around work ethic, values, and money. How do you feel about the type of clothing they want to buy? There are many different clothing styles on the market today, and you need to investigate the type of clothing to see if you feel the style is appropriate for your child's age and body type. Go to the store with your child, and use those moments in the store to explain your values and views. Your child needs to know that just because the style may be popular, it may not be appropriate for them because it is too tight or too revealing. Once again, you have an opportunity to teach your child about clothing and what images they are portraying by what they wear.
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Extractions: Today's families are often blended family situations. Mom and Dad each bring kids into a marriage. The children come to the family with different sets of rules and expectations. The result can be confusion and conflict. There are some tips for blended families that can help the "two sides" truly become one family. Work out common family or "house rules" and responsibilities. All family members participate in setting rules. Identify consequences for each rule in advance. Post the rules in a public area of the house. Parents need to be patient, fair, consistent and present a united front. Support the other parent's choices. Don't put down your partner's ideas or methods in front of the children. Allow an adjustment time for the children. The situation is new to everyone. Have a family discussion about family values such as education, religion and cultural differences. Find beliefs that are common among all family members. Teach children to show respect for differences among family members. Holiday traditions may be different. Find a way to include things from both families as you establish new traditions.
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Extractions: Lifespan Home Page Parenting Safety Tips The most important thing you can do to keep your child safe is to keep the lines of communication open. Ask questions, listen to your children and encourage them to be open with you. Let them know that you will believe them and you will be there if they need your help. Here are some simple steps parents can take to keep kids safe. Don't make the mistake of thinking that only young children are vulnerable. Adolescents and teenagers are also at risk.
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Extractions: Discipline is teaching. Use positive discipline techniques and consistency to teach your child to make wise choices, think about actions and their consequences, and set boundaries. Developmental milestones NEVER hit or shake your baby. Your baby's muscles, especially around the head and neck, are still developing. Bouncing your child gently is fine, but rough movements can tear your child's developing muscles and can cause severe brain damage or even death. Your infant is not old enough to understand why he is being punished, and it damages the safe relationship you have built. The best way to discipline infants is by acting in consistent ways and by modeling how your child should behave. By 6 to 9 months your baby should be crawling, rolling over, and exploring the world around him. Because he does not know yet what is safe or how to act, you will have to teach him. Keep your exploring baby safe by baby-proofing your house. Distract your child from any potential dangers, such as grabbing the cat's tail. Show your child appropriate behavior, and remember that your child learns through repetition. Consistent routines teach your child what to expect and how to act. By 9 months your child should have an eating and sleeping schedule. If bedtime is 8pm, stick to it. If you have a no-candy rule, stick to it. Children who know what to expect have an easier time acting appropriately.